MTHR

COLLECTIVE

Catskills, New York

November 5-8th, 2026

A lively Catskills getaway located on Shandelee Mountain, near the quaint town of Livingston Manor.

Located 2 hours north of New York City in the western Catskills, the Arnold House is a country retreat set on 80 acres of land with custom trails. Staying at The Arnold is an experience more akin to staying with old friends than a traditional hotel.

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THE ARNOLD HOUSE,

CATSKILLS

MTHR is on the move! We are delighted to announce that we will be hosting two MTHR Collective retreats this year:

This page is dedicated to The Arnold House location, and below you’ll find information about the different accommodation types, pricing, travel logistics, speakers (announcements coming soon!), and a sample schedule.

In order to accommodate as many attendees as this property allows, single occupancy rooms will be extremely limited this year, so we encourage you to bring some mama friends or opt to be paired with another solo traveler. We are so excited to meet you, mama!

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set your alarms…

tickets go live on:

JANUARY 27TH @10 AM PST

*booking link will appear on this page

Indoor rustic wedding reception venue with wooden beams, string lights, and hanging plants, set up with long tables decorated with white tablecloths, glassware, napkins, small flower arrangements, and orange candles.
Rustic outdoor barn with open sliding doors revealing a dining area inside, surrounded by potted plants and gravel ground, under a partly cloudy sky.
Interior of a cozy restaurant with wooden furniture, stacked firewood, warm lighting, and a brick wall with a fireplace in the background.
Interior view of a sunroom with a large glass window, wooden ceiling, and tables outside. Inside, there are chairs, potted plants, a white table with decorative objects, and a wood storage rack.
A wooden signboard with red text reads "The Arnold on Shandale," illuminated by a small light, situated in a garden with green plants, in front of a rustic house with large windows and warm interior lighting.
Empty cozy restaurant with wooden tables and chairs, a stone fireplace, and mounted animal head, warm lighting, and a wood-piled half wall.
Sunlit cozy living room with wooden walls and ceiling, featuring mid-century modern furniture, a wood-burning fireplace, and large windows overlooking a backyard.
Interior of a greenhouse or event space with wooden walls and ceiling, decorated with hanging plants, string lights, and a floral arch at the front. There are rows of wooden chairs set up facing the arch, and large windows on the right side providing
Interior of a cozy bar or restaurant with wooden furniture, a pool table in the foreground, and a wood-burning stove in the background, illuminated by warm lighting.
Cozy indoor lounge with wooden walls and ceiling, multiple sofas, chairs, and side tables, fireplace, large windows, decorative plants, and logs stacked under a white table in the foreground.
A rustic wooden building with warm interior lights, surrounded by trees and landscaping, under a cloudy sky in the evening.
Sunlit greenhouse with a long wooden table, ten brown chairs, and potted plants on the table and shelves, overlooking a fenced backyard with trees.
A cozy living room with wooden-paneled walls and ceiling, large windows, and various chairs and sofas, including a black sofa with orange and beige pillows, a gray sectional with patterned pillows, and vintage leather armchairs. There is a modern ora
Cozy lounge area with wooden walls and ceiling, featuring various chairs, sofas, and lamps. In the foreground, a white table with glass and metal decor holds a vase with flowers and log stacks underneath. Large windows provide natural light.

SELECT YOUR ROOM

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SELECT YOUR ROOM *

Bright bedroom with large window, white walls, blue closet, and minimalist decor. It features a bed with white linens, two small wall-mounted shelves with books, a rattan chair, and small bedside tables with lamps.

MAIN INN: KING

King bed, private en-suite bathroom.

  • Slightly larger than our queen and twin rooms, these rooms offer king beds, sunrise light, beautiful views of the grounds and pond, and private en suite bathrooms.

    *MUST BOOK AS A GROUP OF TWO FOR THIS OPTION

  • Slightly larger than our queen and twin rooms, these rooms offer king beds, sunrise light, beautiful views of the grounds and pond, and private en suite bathrooms.

  • Non-refundable. Can sell your spot with approval from the MTHR team.

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A cozy bedroom with two windows, a netted chair with a pillow, a small end table, a desk with a red chair, and a black wire wall organizer.

MAIN INN: QUEEN

Queen bed, private en-suite bathroom.

  • Our standard size rooms with queen beds, evening light and private en suite bathrooms.

    *Must book as a group of two for this option

  • Our standard size rooms with queen beds, evening light and private en suite bathrooms.

  • Non-refundable. Can sell your spot with approval from the MTHR team.

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A tidy bedroom with two twin beds, each with white bedding and green plaid blankets. The room has two windows with beige curtains, a small wooden desk with a red chair, and various wall decorations including shelves, picture frames, and a wire magazine rack. The ceiling has a round light fixture, and the floor is carpeted.

SOLD OUT

MAIN INN: TWO TWINS

Two twin beds, en-suite bathroom. Great option for solo travelers who would like to be paired with another solo traveler

  • Perfect for friends sharing a room, this room has two twin beds for added comfort and private en suite bathrooms.

  • Non-refundable. Can sell your spot with approval from the MTHR team.

Cozy living room with a gray sofa, two matching armchairs, a round coffee table, a table lamp, and decor accents including two small red animal figures on the wall and a wall-mounted oar. Large windows and a door with glass panes bring in natural light, with sheer curtains framing the scene.

SOLD OUT

GARDEN HOUSE SUITE: THREE BEDROOMS

This split-level accommodation offers a comfortable private sitting room, three bedrooms (one queen, one room with two twin beds & one room with a full size bed) and a large shared bathroom with soaking tub.

  • 2 twin beds, large shared bathroom. Great option for solo travelers who want to be paired with another solo traveler

  • Queen bed, shared bathroom.

  • Non-refundable. Can sell your spot with approval from the MTHR team.

A bedroom with a large bed covered in white bedding, two windows with cream curtains, a small desk with an air conditioning unit, a vintage chair, a floor lamp, and a corner chair with decorative pillows on it.

GARDEN HOUSE: 2nd FLOOR, STUDIO KING

Second floor private entry. Standard king bed. Room features common space, desk, private en suite bathroom with soaking tub and shower.

  • Located on the first floor of the Shandelee Post, directly across the street from The Arnold House Main Building overlooking our gardens. Enjoy your own private entrance, king size bed and master bathroom with walk-in shower.

    *must book as a group of two for this option

  • Located on the first floor of the Shandelee Post, directly across the street from The Arnold House Main Building overlooking our gardens. Enjoy your own private entrance, king size bed and master bathroom with walk-in shower.

  • Non-refundable. Can sell your spot with approval from the MTHR team.

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A cozy bedroom with a wooden floor, green walls, a white bed with pillows and a plaid blanket, and two windows with white curtains, some small wall art, a chair, and a rustic nightstand.

GARDEN HOUSE: GROUND FLOOR, STUDIO KING

Ground floor private entry. Standard king bed. Spacious room featuring common space with seating, desk, closet, private en suite bathroom with shower.

  • Located on the first floor of the Shandelee Post, directly across the street from The Arnold House Main Building overlooking our gardens. Enjoy your own private entrance, king size bed and master bathroom with walk-in shower.

    *must book as a group of two for this option

  • Located on the first floor of the Shandelee Post, directly across the street from The Arnold House Main Building overlooking our gardens. Enjoy your own private entrance, king size bed and master bathroom with walk-in shower.

  • Non-refundable. Can sell your spot with approval from the MTHR team.

BOOK NOW
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Living room with a lit fireplace, wood logs stacked in a circular holder, two light-colored armchairs, a gray couch, a black round coffee table, potted plants, a large black lamp, a wall painting, and hardwood floors.

SOLD OUT

SHANDELEE POST SUITE: TWO BEDROOMS

Private entrance and semi-private porch with patio seating. This two bedroom, one bath suite features one King bedroom, and one with two twin beds. The shared bathroom features a walk-in shower. The spacious living room has its own wood-burning stove

  • Shared queen bed, shared bathroom. Must book as a group of two for this option.

  • Two twin beds, shared bathroom

  • Non-refundable. Can sell your spot with approval from the MTHR team.

A cozy bedroom with a large bed, a glass door leading to a balcony with autumn leaves, a wicker chair, a small table, and a round mirror on a stand.

SHANDELEE POST STUDIO

Ground floor private entry & sitting deck. Standard king bed. Room features desk & dresser for storage, private en suite bathroom with shower.

  • Ground floor private entry. Standard king bed. Spacious room featuring common space with  seating, desk, closet, private en suite bathroom with shower. 

    *must book as a group of two for this option

  • Ground floor private entry. Standard king bed. Spacious room featuring common space with  seating, desk, closet, private en suite bathroom with shower. 

  • Non-refundable. Can sell your spot with approval from the MTHR team.

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Clean bedroom with a large bed, white bedding, a decorative pillow with a camping quote, a throw blanket, a yellow nightstand, and an open doorway leading to a bathroom with a bathtub.

SHANDELEE POST LOFT

Second floor private entry & balcony. Standard king bed. Common space with seating, desk, closet, private en suite bathroom with shower. 

  • Second floor private entry. Standard king bed. Spacious room featuring common space with  seating, desk, closet, private en suite bathroom with shower. 

    *must book as a group of two for this option

  • Second floor private entry. Standard king bed. Spacious room featuring common space with  seating, desk, closet, private en suite bathroom with shower. 

  • Non-refundable. Can sell your spot with approval from the MTHR team.

BOOK NOW
BOOK NOW
Living room with a stone fireplace, beige and brown furniture, a gray sofa, and framed artwork on the wall.

SOLD OUT

MODERN FARMHOUSE

A three bedroom, three bathroom home (1 king, 2 queens), featuring a fireplace, full kitchen and spacious private backyard.

  • Must book as a group of two for this option

  • Non-refundable. Can sell your spot with approval from the MTHR team.

payment schedule:

  • Non-Refundable Deposit: $600

    *Due at time of booking

  • 2nd Payment: July 1st

  • 3rd Payment: October 1st

    *MTHR Collective will send invoices on these dates

Save 5% when you pay in full on any occupancy type

Pricing is per person, and deposits are non-refundable, unless we are able to fill your spot.

Weren’t able to snag a spot or grab the accommodations you had in mind? Fill out the waitlist form and we’ll do everything humanly possible to get you a spot:

Waitlist
Waitlist
FAQS
FAQS
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A white vase with pink paper palm leaves, four colorful canned beverages, and empty wine glasses on a dark wooden table.
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A dinner table decorated with candles, vases with dried flowers, and a rust-colored table runner, illuminated by soft candlelight and string lights in the background.
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sample schedule

*SUBJECT TO CHANGE

Thursday

Guest arrival/check-in:4:00 PM

Happy Hour: 4:30-5:30 PM

Dinner: 5:45-6:45 PM       

Sound Healing: 7:30-8:30 PM

Campfire Chat: 8:45 PM

Lights out: 10:00 PM

Friday

Morning Wellness: 8:30-9:30 AM

Breakfast: 9:30-10:30 AM

Speaker Panel: 11:00-1:00 PM

Lunch: 1:00-2:00 PM

Break: 2:00-4:30 PM

Happy Hour: 4:30-5:30 PM

Dinner: 5:30-6:30 PM

Spa Night: 7:00-8:30 PM

Campfire Chat: 9:00-10 PM

Lights out: 10:00 PM

Saturday

Morning Wellness: 8:30-9:30

Breakfast: 9:30-10:30 AM

Workshop: 11-12:30 PM

Lunch: 12:30-1:30 PM 

MTHR’S DAY Pop Up Party: 1:30-4:30 PM

Break: 4:30-5:30 PM

Happy Hour: 5:30-6:30 PM 

Dinner: 6:30-7:30 PM

Workshop: 7:30-8:30 PM

Campfire Chat: 8:30-10:30 PM

Lights out: 10:30 PM

Sunday

Grab & Go breakfast: 9:30-10:30 AM

Check-out + hugs goodbye: 10:30 AM

SPEAKERS COMING SOON!

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what’s included:

  • 4 days, three nights of accommodations

  • All on-site meals + drinks + alcohol

  • All activities + workshops

  • off-site dinners+activities

  • Our highly coveted swag bag

  • Freebies offered throughout the weekend

what’s not included:

  • Airfare

  • Transportation to/from airport

cancellation policy:

Due to the logistics of our all-inclusive event, we are unable to offer refunds once you spot is secured. We can, however, transfer your spot to another individual if there is a wait list, or you can sell your spot with prior approval from the MTHR team. Visit our FAQ page to read more about cancellations.

travel info.

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CLOSEST AIRPORTS TO THE ARNOLD HOUSE:

  • Stewart International Airport (SWF) — 65 miles (driving estimated: 1 hr 20–30 min)

  • Sidney Municipal Airport (N23 / SXY) — 55-65 miles (driving estimated: 1 hr 13 min drive)

  • Newark Liberty International Airport (EWR) — 119 miles (driving estimated: 2 hr 5–25 min)

  • John F. Kennedy International Airport (JFK) — 117 miles (driving estimated: 2 hr 14 min)

  • Albany International Airport (ALB) — 121 miles (driving estimated: 2 hr 15–25 min)

For shuttle service coordination or carpooling logistics, we recommend using our MTHR Attendees Facebook page to connect with other attendees. NO GLAMPER LEFT BEHIND!